The 37-year-old who works at an ad agency, has a sweet pit bull, and an enviable vinyl collection — but is so obviously not over his ex-fiancée.I was fresh out of a relationship, breakup wounds still searing.But, rather than stay single, I figured out what the hell I wanted from my next long-term partner, dove straight into dating, and found myself in the middle of a rotation — that is, seeing a multitude of men, all noncommittally.My many relationships have fallen somewhere between a string of not-so-great first dates and being in love.The other scenario is that these women fall in love too quickly with one guy and end up heartbroken time after time. Well here's some dating advice for women in particular...When I was looking for love, I often dated up to three guys simultaneously.
If you don't want the guys you're dating to know, this article will offer some tips.I wasn't trying to hit some number in the Guinness Book of World Records.Rather, my goal was simple: to find a guy I could date more than three times, hoping this would lead to a relationship.But in order to avoid painful misunderstandings (like a guy you end up wanting to be with feeling betrayed when he finds out you had dated other people while you dated him) here's some additional advice on how to exercise tact.They’re all in the notes section of my phone: the 26-year-old graphic designer from Baltimore. A couple of actor/bartenders who live within a five-mile radius of my place in Central Los Angeles.It's all about understanding the law of attraction. Until you go out and work on your inside, there's no way you're going to attract the person you want.If you live in fear and insecurity, you are going to meet someone exactly like you.While this may be true of some women who are dating multiple people, I actually believe that there are many good (and, in fact, great) reasons to date several different people when you're single.I even think that dating many people might be one of the best ways to find the one person you are really looking to find.Or is it healthy, even beneficial, to date multiple people at the same time in your quest to find a soul mate?As long as you respect the feelings of the people you see and are truly looking for qualities that will lead to long-term love, it’s okay not to go steady with someone as of the first date.